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To help individuals find closure after the loss of a
relationship by providing quality services and products which
promote comfort and healing through a ceremony attended by
those who offer support during this time of loss.
Bury the Jerk LLC had it's christening event
at the fall of a long "on again off again" relationship. Closure
for this relationship was overdue and would never be
obtained with my ex; I would have to find it on my own. Words
spoken by a friend after my first husbands death came back
to me..."at least you're not going through a divorce". I
thought the statement crass at the time, but when I experienced
divorce, I understood completely. When someone dies
it's final, there's no negotiating anymore...you participate
in long standing traditions that encourage you to grieve
and find closure. With this in mind, I knew what had
to happen. We were going to have a "relationship funeral". My
friends and I gathered together at one of my ex's favorite
upscale restaurants in company of a homemade coffin, two
eulogies...my friends had lots of things to say about putting
this particular relationship to rest, parting gifts of support,
laughs and tears as I began the process of grieving a relationship
that I had held very dear. As I look back on this event
from two years ago, I realize what a wonderful experience
it was for me, and how it enabled me to leave that relationship
behind and not come burdened with left over garbage into
the next. I hope that by bringing this service together
in our kits, many others will be able to truly find the closure
they need to move on happy and whole!
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